How to Find a Girlfriend
by Don Dulin
How to Find a GirlfriendAfter a long night out with the guys, you come home to an empty house/apartment and went to bed alone….again. You’ve decided that enough is enough and you want a woman to keep your house tidy and have dinner ready for you when you come home from work. Just kidding. You want a woman to build a relationship with. The only question is how do you find a girlfriend? After all, if you knew how to do this, you wouldn’t be in your current sad state now would you?
The funny thing about how to find a girlfriend is that most of the work (as in 99.9%) that is to be done is actually focused on you and not on the girl. The reason is because no girl that is worth forming a long-term relationship with is going to be seen with or put up with your immature ways.
Steps to How to Find a Girlfriend
Be Comfortable Alone
You may be asking why you need to be comfortable alone if the goal is to know how to find a girlfriend. The reason is simple: confidence and self-sufficiency in a man is sexy. There are a lot of men out there that aren’t very self-sufficient: they can’t cook, don’t know how to do the laundry correctly, or even know how to put the toilet seat down.
Before the men start freaking out, understand that I’m not saying you need to be a world-class chef or Marvin Stewart, the male version of Martha. Just know how to cook a few (like 4-5) meals. It’s not rocket science. There are websites and smartphone apps that list nothing but recipes.
Same goes for being alone. If you can go out and do things by yourself, you will develop a confidence around you that women find sexy. Doing things by yourself might sound easy, but for most, it is much harder than you think. Just go to the movies by yourself to see a new release on a Saturday night. You’ll understand.
Don’t Be Afraid To Fail
This is a very important step for how to find a girlfriend. In order to meet women, you are going to have to approach them. I know, it sucks, but it’s part of life. But it gets worse. You’re going to fail. Many, many times. Sometimes the girl will be easy on you and tell you she is in a relationship or that she is moving overseas tomorrow. Other times she won’t be so easy on you and will laugh. Not just a chuckle laugh, but a deep belly laugh that is loud enough that everyone in the room stops what they are doing to look.
But here is the key: you only have to succeed once. That’s right, just once. If you approach 100 women, only 1 has to say yes. Do whatever you need to do in order to focus on that 1 and not the 99.
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